I love it when my 11-year old, Alexia, walks up to me, looks me straight in the eyes and says: ‘Mamma, can you make gnocchi? You haven’t made them in a while…only this time use the gnocchi meat sauce. Wait! No, make the Gorgonzola sauce…hmmmm, no, do that next time. Definitely make the meat sauce this time.’
I think I can manage that, I say with a smile.
Then she’ll give me a side hug. If I’m lucky, she’ll peck me on the cheek, though I always see her wiping her lips as she walks away. She doesn’t know I notice. While she feels and cares deeply, love for her is not a contact sport. Erik and I hope that lasts into her dating years…